Showing posts with label strenght. Show all posts
Showing posts with label strenght. Show all posts

Monday, February 1, 2010

Movies that Move You

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Okay so this may seem a bit strange. Each month I feature a book on AM Arizona which I feel represents some aspect of how to bring Positive Psychology alive in your life. This month I am really not recommending the book so much as what the book teaches. Positive Psychology at the Movies by Ryan Niemiec and Danny Wedding is a reference and research book. It is not a book you want to pick up and read from cover to cover unless you enjoy research. Yet there is so much to learn from this book. Using the model of character strengths and virtues from Positive Psychology, Niemiec and Wedding have developed an outstanding way to view movies and learn about your strengths and virtues.

There are two or three outstanding parts of the book that I would recommend to anyone interested in personal development. First, they cover every one of the strengths and virtues. Many times there is a particular strength like forgiveness or love or spirituality that you really can’t see as having a place in your development. Having worked with and for top executives my entire behavioral career, I can tell you forgiveness and mercy is a difficult strength to discuss. Most people feel that they are being doormats if they forgive too easily in business. Yet, when you see what the strength looks like coming from a character in a movie, you begin to see how it really can be a strength in your own life.

Next there are several charts and lists in the book that are priceless if you want to use film to learn from or to teach from. There are lists of movies with the exact strength the main character is exemplifying and my favorite – a list of the top 100 inspiring movies in the last 100 years!

For those who teach in the field of positive psychology, this book is a treasure chest of teaching opportunities. For anyone who wants to continue their own learning and development, this is an invaluable roadmap of where to start and how to appreciate a strength using something that is in your life every day – a movie.

What I would like to see is an addendum to this great resource book. There is a company that has devoted itself to bringing thoughtful and thought provoking films to wider and broader audiences. That company is The Spiritual Cinema Circle. It is a monthly, subscription based service. As a member you receive a DVD each month with a 4 – 5 films, a discussion sheet and questions to create conversation and thought around the teachings of the movies. I would like to see the Spiritual Cinema’s entire catalog of movies taken through the research matrix that the authors of Positive Psychology at the Movies used. Okay, so maybe – just maybe – my strength of spirituality is coming through. And maybe – just maybe – you can see how a strength can help you develop a livelihood. Spirituality may not be on the list of top ten business skills in any business education program, yet I have found a way to use that exact strength it in my work. That is the beauty of natural strengths, whether you know them or not, all you have to do is invest your time in things that interest you. Generally, you will naturally gravitate toward using your natural strengths.

Happy movie going, Andrea
Andrea T. Goeglein, PhD
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Sunday, September 27, 2009

The Crooked Road of Success - Part II

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Dr. Success Challenge: Get fired and remain optimist.

Some challenges don't need much explanation, but since it is my blog, I will elaborate. Everyone knows someone who has been fired, or maybe you have even been fired yourself.

In early June, I had the opportunity to be fired from a gig I was not even getting compensated for creating! Now that takes getting fired to an all new level. Actually, the level it took me to immediately was getting into action setting an intention to attract a bigger and better opportunities for myself in the same medium. I know you are thinking that kind of response takes years of training and an economic safety net --and I don't downplay either one of those things. However, what the science of positive psychology has shown is that anyone at anytime can choose the response they play out in a situation.

If you want to take a check where you are in your optimism at the moment, go to Happier.com and take the free optimism survey.

Then listen to 24 year old Branden Collinsworth and 74 year old Richard Goeglein discuss how they used their strengths to traverse life's crooked road of success. Their conversation highlights the reality that no matter how many potholes you encounter on the road, life success is a journey worth taking. The opening song on the show is one of many from Pato Benton. You can hear more of his work at http://www.patobanton.com/



With appreciation, Andrea

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